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Thursday, February 21, 2013

Finding the Best School for Your Child

Many parents are not aware of the timeline and process individual schools may require to get their child(ren) enrolled. Many find themselves in a last minute scatter. Believe it, school can begin for young children as early as 8 weeks old.  For many families who have multiple working parents, a great quality school is very important.  After all, these are the people taking care of your children.  

YOU HAVE CHOICES!  Whether it is an early childhood education center, a childcare, elementary, middle or high school, make sure you choose a learning environment in which your child will flourish. These helpful tips can be applied when enrolling a child into school for the first time or transitioning your child into a new school.

EARLY BIRD STARTING POINT...




Focus On Your Child’s Individual Needs - Think about your child’s strengths and talents. Every child is different, and different styles of play and learning are supported by different kinds of programs.  Remember, your experience with school will not be the same as your child’s experience!  Education is changing all the time, try and look through your child’s eyes.

Envision Your Ideal School - Create your list of expectations. Know what you want and why. Picture that school that will meet all your child’s needs and help them to excel! What was good enough for you may not be what you dream for your child! Dream BIG!

Research, Visit, & Ask Questions - There is a vast amount of information about schools available at the tips of your fingers. Most of which is online. Need a computer? Drop by your local library and use theirs (also great opportunity to explore some books with your child). Sites to visit include:www.greatschools.org and Colorado Department of Education’s website.  Check out www.earlychildhoodcolorado.org for information about child care programs. Once you have selected a few schools plan to make a visit or if your schedule conflicts visit the schools website and make a phone call. Ask questions! 





☼ What is the school’s focus?  
☼ How do they approach teaching and learning?
☼ What specific programs are taught?
☼ How do they measure and report your child’s growth?
☼ How and when do you apply?      
☼ What are tuition costs?
☼ What assistance is available
☼ How are parents involved?  
☼ Special Programs offered?   
☼ Classroom sizes?
☼ School’s history of success?  
☼ How many teachers have been there 3 years or more?     
☼ How long has the current principal been in charge?
☼ Are there some parents you can contact?
☼ Is the school or program accredited?
☼ What kind of food are they serving?
☼ What are the hours & school year schedules?
☼ Is the environment warm and welcoming?


Ready To Enroll - It’s always important to not put all of your eggs in one basket. Have a backup plan and complete the enrollment process early for other schools and early childhood development sites you might consider outside of your neighborhood.     

EARLY BIRD CHOOSES ITS WORM..


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Birth - 3: Infant Care and Preschool
What to look for when finding infant and toddler care? Many childcare settings are popping up around the city.  When selecting a place for your baby or toddler make sure it is a quality setting (if the site is rated by Qualistar remember a 4-star is the highest rating).

Applying for Early Care programs?  Generally, Early Care programs will accept applications all year long.  For younger ages such as 2 months to 36 months, many programs are year round.  When a child turns 3 and sometimes at 2 ½ they are eligible for preschool programs which usually run the same schedule as public school (9 months out of the year). When enrolling consider most programs will require specific documents when applying for services.  

Required documents can include:
proof of birth (child’s birth certificate),
proof of address (an Xcel bill, water bill, or housing lease)
proof of income (pay stubs, tax information, SSI information, TANF information),
most current physical and most current immunizations.  

Once you have gathered your documents, and chosen an organization to place your child(ren), contact them directly to figure out their process.  Every school has a different process.  Some may have a waiting list or home visits that proceed actual placement in a classroom.  

Today most preschool programs are free up to 2.5 hours a day, which forces working parents to pay for additional hours of care.

Quality care ranges from $600 to over $1,400 a month. Sure there are programs that provide assistance, but a majority are income based and/or have a waitlist.Remember the Denver Preschool Program provides some form of tuition assistance to Denver families with kids who are kindergarten bound (regardless of their income level).

What to do when affordability impacts choice? National studies say we turn to family, friends, and neighbors for care, known as FFN. Whether you want to enroll your child into a large center or leave them at home with Nana, equip yourself with the ability to provide the best fit learning environment to suit your child’s development needs. ZERO TO THREE: National Center for Infant, Toddlers and Families has a websiste www.zerotothree.org that provides tips and resources to help children thrive in FFN care settings so check them out. Good Luck!  




School Age & Tweens: Elementary through Middle School


Choosing the right school for your child is challenging.  Most of us want our child to go to school in our own neighborhood, close to home, and convenient for drop-off and pick-up on our way to and from work.  We also want a great quality school that will meet our child’s needs, and because districts, like Denver and Aurora and Jefferson County, offer many choices, making this decision can seem overwhelming. YOU HAVE CHOICES! Stand up and make your voice heard and find a school that is the right fit for your child.

Public, charter, magnet, and private schools - each has a different focus, and a different approach to preparing students for the future. Knowing what your choices are is the first step for making this decision. There are some great tools to help narrow down the field, but the most important thing you can do is go and visit a school you are interested in.  


Remember, a brand new school like  www.Academy-360.org will not have a track record yet, or even a place to visit, but they are likely to have room for your input and will be shaped by the community that helps them get started! Get involved and get your children what they need!

Denver offers a guide book to their choice schools that gives an overview of each school by neighborhood, and includes rankings of each school based on past performance.  There is still a good chance of getting your child into the school of your choice, so start NOW. http://schoolchoice.dpsk12.org/enrollment-guides-2013-14/

forms http://earlyeducation.dpsk12.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Round-2-Kinder.pdf 





Teens: High School and College Level


It’s important to not let your child “follow the leader” when selecting a High School based on where all of his/her friends are going. Often times families, even single parents enroll siblings in different schools based on the learning needs of each individual child. Your child may benefit from enrolling into a Private school, IB program, or a school with a high focus in the Arts, math, science, or technology.

Start searching for Colleges as early as when your child is a High School Sophomore.When your child see’s you Did you know that your child can enroll and take college classes and in some cases for FREE while they are still in high school?  Did you know that by choosing this option, the cost of a college education, and the time it will take to complete a degree can be cut in half?  

We used to hear that college isn’t for every student, but why not try it out while it is free?  For many students the added challenge of college coursework, in many cases, means not having to attend school at the high school every day, is just the change of pace and just the added responsibility that helps a student discover his or her inner scholar and graduate.  

These programs are expanding in Denver, and Aurora has helped students to graduate high school already finished with an Associates degree and ready for the workforce, or for the last two years of college.  If this much college course work is available and possible for free, why not consider it?
3 million dollars in Grants?! 





Grants and Loans


To get federal funding, and for many scholarships you will need to fill out tax information with the government.  If you need support, your local library can provide computer time and often have someone who can help you.  

FAFSA applications open in January every year.  Make sure to do this step as soon as you can in the year in order to qualify for federal pell grants, loans and scholarships. When accepting the funding choice, remember that there are big differences between federal pell grants, loans and scholarships.  Federal Pell grants are based on need and funding that you do not have to pay back unless you cannot fulfil the maintaining requirements.  Loans are funding that most often doesn’t require maintaining specific GPAs or other requirements, but they do need you to pay the funding back.  

There will be payment plans that can include postponing the payback until classes are done, or by working in the designated field as ‘earned credit’, but there will be an interest charge in most situations.  Scholarships are funding that is based on a specific application process which identifies if you meet a certain criteria.  Then funding is awarded and as long as a student can maintain the requirements then the funding doesn’t require a payback.  


For all of these options it is important to know whether or not you have to be a full time student or if you can attend part time.    The FAFSA application can be found online at www.fafsa.ed.gov . The application is easy.  Please have your tax information ready.

Scholarship searches 

When looking for scholarships think of the things you do well.  Think outside of the box at some of the unique talents and interests in your life.   Look for first generation scholarships, ethnic scholarships, sons and daughters of veterans, scholarships from organizations that you are connected to, at places you like to go, investigate fields that you are interested in pursuing and align yourself with dozens of options in order to actually acquire the funding.  There are scholarships out there from all sorts of corporations, Duct Tape, Kodak, Target, Wells Fargo,  and scholarships that are funded within the schools you are applying for.   

Attend financial aid workshops!

Whatever your child’s age or stage, getting started right now is the key to finding a best fit and making school work for you!

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

10 tips for instilling PRIDE in heritage


Teach your child to LOVE the skin they’re in!

February is dedicated to Love and Heritage with Valentine’s Day on the 14th and a month-long celebration of Black History. New research in child development indicates children cultivated in racial pride and engaged in family activities promoting racial knowledge, experience increased academic success.This is the month to start a tradition of Love and Heritage with your children, grandchildren, or kids in your care. The Nest Matters wants to share tips that will teach your child to Love the skin they’re in and instill pride in their Heritage.

  • Create a Family Creed a system of principles and beliefs. A family creed is normally less than 25 words and defines why your family exists. Geoffrey Canada, President and CEO of Harlem Children’s Zone established a student creed, “I will go to college; I will succeed,”. This creed is stated in the hallway as children line up each day. Creating a family creed, believing in it and practicing it with your children or grandchildren (regardless of how young they are) is a great way to instill Pride in your Heritage.  Here’s a link to get you started


  • Learn about Local Heritage Visit some places where the whole family can learn about the history of the area from a cultural perspective.  Go visit Stiles African American Heritage Center in five points, or enjoy some Latino Americano art exhibits at La Museo de las Americas on Santa Fe.  You can also explore books at a the Blair-Caldwell African American Heritage Library and be surrounded by the richness of history, literature, art, music, religion and politics of African Americans in the West. Knowing Denver’s history from a cultural point of view is a second great way to instill a sense of Pride in your Heritage.

The City of Denver offers a list of places to see - why not take a family field trip?

  • Read a book together - and talk about it!  There are some beautiful picture books that children can relate to and that place their experience at the center of the story.  Some of our favorites are “I Love My Hair” by Natasha Anastasia Tarpley, and the poetry and art book “In Daddy’s Arms I Am Tall”  by Javaka Steptoe.  Taking the time to look at the artwork and discuss a book with characters like your child, or that your child can aspire to be like is our third suggestion for instilling Pride in Heritage.  There are publishing companies dedicated to producing books at every reading level with characters from all different cultures. Check out Lee and Low books. 



  • Write your own story - You don’t have to trace your roots back 300 years to find interesting stories to tell.  Why not spend a week snapping photos of your own family in their regular routines and write the story of you?  Young children love seeing pictures of themselves and their families.  Print pictures and work with your child to caption each and tell the story of a typical week in your lives together.  Honoring the routine parts of your lives makes them important and helps your child to recognize the culture of the household they live in. Number four on our list of ways to instill Pride in Heritage. You can take make a book your child will love and treasure with tape and staples, or take a digital file to Kinkos to print and bind, but there are also places like Kids Publish where children can publish stories on line, or have their story made into a real book and sold on Amazon!
  • Create a Family Tree - Seeing how people are connected is another way for children to learn about their immediate heritage.  How exactly is Aunty Jo related to your child? Which side of the family is that uncle from? And what about those family members who aren’t blood relatives, but are family just the same?  An exploration like this can help your child appreciate the bonds they have to others, and enrich their appreciation for the community that surrounds them.  And it is our fifth idea for instilling Pride in Heritage.  There are lots of on-line sites like Ancestry.com that you can use if you want to trace your family history back in time, but you can also find simple and free sites like Family Echo where you can put your own history in and not have to pay for additional research services.  

  • Create autonomy and independence -  Allowing children to think independently and make choices gives them the ability to find their interest and develop self-identity. Encouraging pride in oneself opens the door to instilling pride in their heritage. Create environments infants and toddlers will love...
picking out their own outfits and learning to dress and undress themselves
choosing the order of their bedtime routine: brush teeth before pajamas
helping with household chores  

          Vanderbuilt University has some suggestions for helping all children
          become more independent through daily routines.

  • Expose your family to events and activities that celebrate cultures Exploring the world we live in and discovering the sounds, tastes, smells, and feel of other cultures will help them to appreciate their own even more. New experiences and new friends can lead to opportunities to try new foods, see new traditions and learn about the world.  Find reasons to celebrate how we are alike and how we are different.  When meeting someone else’s culture, children are more likely to ask about how “we” do it, and why “we” don’t have that same celebration.  This is an opportunity to instill pride in heritage and exposure to other’s heritage and traditions at the same time!
         The Public Broadcast System offers an important perspective.

  • Praise your child’s effort and not his or her personality: How you comment on your child’s accomplishments or failures can change their views about themselves and their world. Rather than praising their personalities “You are so smart” or criticizing them “You are so stupid”, praise their efforts or strategies and cultivate their mindset: “Look, you tried very hard to put your shoes on the right feet”. Children that receive comments to reinforce their problem-solving strategies are less likely to give up or walk away from a struggle. Teaching your child to take pride in their accomplishments is a key component in developing pride in their heritage.

The Baby Center offers 10 ways to build the self-esteem of 2 year olds.

The international children’s education network offers an
           explanation of what encouragement is and can do for kids.

  • Shades of Black: A Celebration of Our Children: Sandra L. Pinkney’s Shades of Black uses real life photos to explore beauty in skin color. “I am the smooth brown in a chocolate bar” and “I am the velvety orange in a peach ”are descriptive ways to teach your child there is no “good” skin, or “bad” hair, just different shades and styles of beautiful. Let them see and know black comes in many unique shades and is always beautiful beyond measure. Instilling how to love the skin you’re in promotes a sense of pride and connection to your heritage.
  • Turn Homework into “Your History”: When there is a homework project due, help find the connections to those in the field who look like your child.  When assigned a report on the 1920’s, why not explore the history of Jazz and talk about the contributions of African American musicians?  When given a science fair project, why not help re-create the Gong and Signal chair patented by Miriam Benjamin in 1888 and learn about black women inventors?  Help your child to know and have pride in the heroes in every field that they share a heritage with.

Biography . com  is  a quick resource for finding just about anyone!

  • Find the Richness in Family Recipies : Food is such a huge component connecting people and heritage. Collect family recipes from Grandma, and help your child to learn at the hip of the family chef.  Traditional recipes are so important to preserve, especially those that center family celebrations.  Help your children learn the “real” way to make that pie, and to make “mama’s stew” the way that they have always been made.  Then take those old-school fried foods and rich buttery meals, and find ways to create every-day versions that will keep diabetes and heart disease away.

Black America Cooks has some wonderful recipes for healthy eating

And check out this Soul Food Pyramid!